d e a r p a r e n t s . . .

Don't teach your children life lessons with talks. Just show them in your daylife.

Don't ask your daughter to stop dating older man.. Be a good role model instead.. Teach them what they want to know. They wouldn't need other mature people to satisfy their hunger of maturity.

Don't be a police guard who stays awake waiting them come home until 3 a.m.. Be their best friend and ask what they're doing on the next day instead.

Don't yell at your children to tidy up their room.. Give them an understanding about hygiene and health instead.

Don't act like a dictator.. Just learn that people born with different characters. Adapt with your children's differences. They'll learn to obey you with their own way and put their trust on you as their friend.

Don't compare your children to others and show your disatisfaction to them. It will hurt themselves, as long as start comparing you with other parents too.

Don't judge your children's friends just because they're tattoed, pierced or playing heavy metal music. Try to understand that God created people in many kind of appearance and just try to accept them and be their trustable friend instead. They will put their trust in you and never lie behind your back.

Don't be angry if they do wrong, just remember that a fault is just one step closer to success, and believe that experience is one of the best teacher in our lives. Just teach them how to handle bad conditions and be their shoulder to cry on instead. They'll grow stronger than what you expect.

Don't bring too much negative thoughts out from your head.. If you're sure you've nurtured and teach them your best, just relax, put your trust on them as they grew older, and just believe that the God, the One you always pray to, watches them regulary and take care of them for you.

Don't force your children to accept your believes and your perspective of life. Understand that you get different acknowledge in different environment and different condition. Things will never be the same for you and your children. Try to appreciate their thoughts instead. They'll grow up to be an open-minded and responsible kids.

Don't ever think that your children will always be children. Just accept their maturity fase, and understand that what goes around comes around. They're soon gonna grow up just like you..


Be prepare instead.

we are the children of life.

Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
and though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love, but not your thoughts.
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
for their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward, nor tarries with yesterday.
--Kahlil Gibran

Forgive us dear parents... but trully, a message from our deepest heart..
Not to be understanable.. yes..
Uneasily accepted.. I'm sure it is

But that's the way it should be...mothers & fathers






So just pray with your pure gentle heart...
that the Light may guide the path of our life..
N hope that this track is the best...

Jessica is currently....

In a search of a place to anchoring her soul...
To lay down her head...
To rest her mind...







Anyplace, anyone?

wings of desire.

Maggie Rice: Do you feel that?
Seth: Yes.
Maggie Rice: And that? How's it feel? Tell me what it feels like.
Seth: I can't.
Maggie Rice: Try.
Seth: Warm. Aching.
Maggie Rice: It's okay. We fit together.
Seth: I know.
Maggie Rice: We were made to fit together.

City of Angels, 1995

Sigh*...
Sometimes I'm hoping things would run smoothly and perfecto just like those fairytale movies.
........
........
........
But who am I to ask..
For we're just some piece of puzzle who's here to complete the picture of life.





I'm still here waitin for the best...

Quote of the day.

Elinor Dashwood : Did he tell you he loved you?
Marianne : Yes... no. Never absolutely. It was everyday implied but never declared.

(Sense and Sensibility, 1995)

GANDHI in FAITH.

"All compromise is based on give and take, but there can be no give and take on fundamentals. Any compromise on mere fundamentals is a surrender. For it is all give and no take."

"Always aim at complete harmony of thought and word and deed. Always aim at purifying your thoughts and everything will be well."


"Faith is not something to grasp, it is a state to grow into."

"God sometimes does try to the uttermost those whom he wishes to bless."

"Prayer is the key of the morning and the bolt of the evening."


"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong."

Verse of the day.

John 14:27

"Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid."

Terlanjur Sayang =)

Dearest my treasure of life...

Terimakasih untuk mengijinkan aku menempati sebuah bagian ruang dalam hati kalian yang disana ditempatkan berbagai macam perabot jiwa.
Terimakasih untuk memberikan aku kesempatan mencoret kanvas kehidupan kalian dengan warna terang binar kehidupan maupun warna pekat keredupan cahaya.
Terimakasih untuk memberikanku kepercayaan menggandeng tanganmu dan menuntun disaat kau tersesat dalam kegelapan..
Terimakasih untuk mahalnya detik, menit dan jam yang dengan ikhlas kalian relakan untuk berbagi segala macam bahan baku pembentuk kehidupan...
Terimakasih untuk telinga yang senantiasa mendengar isak tangis dan tawa bahagia...
Terimakasih untuk mata yang tajam dan teliti menembus segala kelemahan dan kekurangan..
Terimakasih untuk lengan yang selalu direntangkan kapan pun aku membutuhkan kehangatan cinta sebagai pengusir kebekuan jiwa...
Terimakasih untuk untaian indah kata-kata bijak, nasihat, teguran, pujian...
Terimakasih untuk hati semurni emas yang senantiasa menerima, melupakan, menutupi dan mengikhlaskan segala ketidaksempurnaan...

There just never enough words to describe....
Love u guys =)
(didedikasikan untuk setiap individu yang merasa pernah terlibat dalam adegan tersebut bersama saya.. u're my treasure of life...)

p e r f e c t .

Sometimes it's never quite enough
If you're flawless, then you'll win my love
Don't forget to win first place
Don't forget to keep that smile on your face

Be a good boy
Try a little harder
You've got to measure up
And make me prouder

How long before you screw it up
How many times do I have to tell you to hurry up
With everything I do for you
The least you can do is keep quiet

Be a good girl
You've gotta try a little harder
That simply wasn't good enough
To make us proud

I'll live through you
I'll make you what I never was
If you're the best, then maybe so am I
Compared to him compared to her
I'm doing this for your own damn good
You'll make up for what I blew
What's the problem...why are you crying

Be a good boy
Push a little farther now
That wasn't fast enough
To make us happy
We'll love you just the way you are
If you're perfect

Alanis Morisette "Jagged Little Pill" (1995)

"Never would done that to my children promise..."

Quotes of the day.

...and so is the average people do.. Have u considered urself to be beyond average? It's better coz admirance need some one to tell it for u. But beyond average make u don't need that kind of words. They're already in u!

Yeah.... stop worrying n questioning stupid questions too much. Just smile, live ur life, n good things usually come in the moment u most unexpected.

Have a groooovy dayyyy =)